This week’s Weekword – Love

Welcome to another Weekword hosted by Lobsterdance this time who has aptly chosen Love. Please click on the link to her blog and read her post where you can also see who else is playing this week!

I’m grumpy today and celebs/people who would like no more than to be in love themselves appeared to spend a lot of time on Twitter, Facebook and forums posting sarcasm and bile and bitterness about Valentine’s Day this week. Apart from making themselves look full of bile and bitterness it also depresses those who are only too happy to have YET another reason; no, not A reason, YET another reason to spread a bit of love…

One of the funniest things I spotted was a girl who had dressed her dinner table and daubed the room in pink hearts and balloons and soppiness waiting for her partner to get home to amuse him BECAUSE they think Valentines day is all about marketing and shallowness…anyone spot the irony there? I bet they had a whale of a time! I hope so…and I bet they do it next year too! It looked fabulous!

As a child, and not an oil painting at that, I desperately wanted Valentine’s cards and don’t think I ever got one…I don’t remember being cynical and stompy saying Valentines Day was a load of rubbish…I just wanted a Valentine’s Card!..I also thought my time would come and I’ve not been without one for 28 years now! *smug* So where does  this misery come from? Is it cool to be miserable? I’m afraid I’m of the opinion that if you go around smiling…no matter how you feel on the inside; unloved, ugly, depressed, scared or lonely, that generally people smile back and in turn that makes you feel better.

Can you imagine having pets and not loving them? They don’t understand that you’re just being cool. You give a pet that has come from a rescue home love and you get untold rewards back from them. Try it on a human!

Love attracts Love…and it’s the best thing in the world.

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This week’s Weekword – Yellow

Trying to be slightly less tardy on the case this week, here you have this week’s Weekword, Yellow, hosted by Erika at Hub 52. Please go over to her blog and see who else has joined in this week.

I am not a huge fan of the colour yellow and would totally avoid it in clothes…apart from one great exception…my Fishbone T-shirt signed by Norwood the bassist and Angelo the vocalist


I would say I dislike the colour until I actually think about it, especially at this time of year as I await the clarion call of (if I remember correctly) about 750 bulbs; the fanfare into spring that makes my heart fairly burst when the first daffodils appear! Long awaited after the winter dormancy and the cold, brown, hard earth…the piles of brown leaves littering the garden from the stark bareness of the beech, sycamore and oak that border it.

When I open my eyes even more, yellow is already apparent in my garden in the Winter Jasmine rambling over the fence at the back and my Hamamelis by the bird table, that when you take the time to actually breathe on the frozen flowers whilst out feeding the birds, emit a beautiful fragrance as you breathe back in (thanks for that tip Emma at the Gift Shed!)

As we see the spring flowers arrive it usually brings with it the other great yellow thing, so welcome, that we also take for granted! Roll on 05:14 March 20th!

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Week(end)word…well Tuesday word…look I’ve been busy…DRAGON

Hosted by Carmen at Tales of a Biomouse this week, Carmen has come up with Dragon. Please have a look at her site to see her entry and anyone else who has joined in…

Obviously for me, as a huge Narnia fan, my brain went first to Eustace Scrubb’s enchantment in Voyage of The Dawn Treader, one of my favourite books in the Chronicles, and then flitted to Smaug in The Hobbit, but as this is the Tuesday after Wales won their first match with Ireland in the Six Nations Rugby Tournament that began this weekend, I would like to show you the best flag in the world, one which I have on my coffee table to wave madly as soon as the anthem kicks in…

….and I burst into tears before Alun-Wyn Jones, guaranteed!

I was born in Wales, my family are all welsh speaking (apart from my generation as our parents moved out of Wales when we were babies) but I can’t explain it…my Taid, a well-known Tenor on the Eisteddfod circuit in the 50′s/60′s and 70′s instilled such pride in us and my father, who idolised my Taid, has carried it on with my nephew and nieces, not even born in the country but borne of welsh parents.

The sheer volume of the singing in The Millenium Stadium intimidates the other teams so much so that their coaches have the choice to open the roof or not, weather permitting, to allow the dilution of the volume!

Apart from that, you’ve got to admire the blokes’ physiques even if you’re not a rugby fan!

…it also gives my husband a legitimate excuse to call my mother a Welsh Dragon!

CYMRU AM BYTH!!!!

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This week’s weekword: Weather

For this week’s Weekword head over to  http://thegiftshed.wordpress.com/ to see who else is involved and leave a comment if you’d like to join in with a link to your blog so we can see what you have written for ‘Weather’ this week!

What a stupid language English is! Here is the thesaurus definition!…

wether  is a neutered ram; weather  is climactic and atmospheric conditions; while whether  simply means ’if’ or ’either’

Sunshine is delicious, rain is refreshing, wind braces us up, snow is exhilarating; there is really no such thing as bad weather, only different kinds of good weather.  ~John Ruskin

Rainbows apologize for angry skies.  ~Sylvia Voirol

Weather is a great metaphor for life – sometimes it’s good, sometimes it’s bad, and there’s nothing much you can do about it but carry an umbrella.  ~Terri Guillemets

This week I shall talk about being ‘under the weather’.
I’m a jolly chap in general, positively beany some would say…except I’m a bit fed up because I’ve had a broken ankle since  25.11.11 after an un-glamorous step off an 8″ step walking out of my hairdresser. I knew I’d snapped it straight away as I did the same thing off a half-inch kerb outside Nottingham Rock City before a Marillion gig in 2000 (though we got backstage to meet the band!) however it took 3 casts to heal so when I heard the snap this time I crawled back into the hairdresser, gave her heart failure and she took me to the hospital.

The reason I’m ‘under the weather’ is because four weeks after the consultant had a prod and sent me on my way…I had to ask about physio as an afterthought…my foot is worse than it was three days after the cast came off. The consultant had said no more than it will swell, it will hurt but do what you can on it and rest it if you do too much…which I did. I took my decorations down, I did housework, I washed dishes and ironed, I gigged on it twice and went to see Rich twice in his other bands, so I’ve not just sat about pondering my navel! However, when I turned up for my physio appointment after four weeks yesterday, I wasn’t surprised that she thought I was in rather a bad way as I had gone from the ecstatic feelings, revelling in standing in the bath unsupervised having a shower and washing my own hair again, using both legs, to being utterly paranoid that I was going to slip and fall as I hopped about gingerly on the slippy surface, avoiding putting any weight on the leg at all.

It has stiffened up unexercised, and she now tells me that it is likely to take months rather than weeks to walk properly again, due mainly to the lack of knowing what I was doing for the last four weeks. That, and the fact that she told me I had broken the fibula rather than the malleolus as I had been told; granted by the plaster lady, as I said the nurse who admitted me only told me it was fractured at all, popping her head around the cubicle curtain when she overheard me and Rich saying that the initial Triage nurse had said she thought it may just be ligamental saying “Oh no, it’s definitely a fracture” before disappearing again.

I have now to do physio exercises 3 times a day and ice it 4 times a day, back on elbow crutches to try to regain correct posture to relearn how to weight-bear again properly with weekly appointments at the physio clinic, plus I can’t drive until she tells me I can which renders me virtually housebound again for the foreseeable! I am however infinitely relieved that she didn’t immediately send me back up to X-ray for another cast!…

I could do with that quote about clouds and silver linings about now….?

 

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Weekword: Ultracrepidarianism

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ultracrepidarianism

This week’s weekword is brought to you by this lady http://diario.bunny-land.com/2012/01/weekword.html so by all means go to her blog to read what she has written and for all those others taking part this week!

The best example I can give you of this is to tell a story about a teeny frustration of being in a band, where we are quite aware we are there to entertain our punters but do not generally require audience participation whilst just starting to sing a song for instance…for some half-cut punter walking up to Richard’s Kings of Leon/Killers style covers band on New Year’s Eve shouting lairily, WKD in-hand, that they should perform Mustang Sally; a generally detested standard on the rock/blues circuit, guaranteed to bring most singers out in a sweat at it’s very mention, as ‘all good bands do Mustang Sally’ doesn’t particularly warrant much more than to be soundly beaten by the headstock of a guitar or to accidentally discus the largest cymbal at her retreating tinselled, lolling head, hog-tying her with the mic lead as she goes to tell her maaaaaaaaaaaaaaates what a crap band they are when  she sings it at karaoke every week and it goes down a storm…well, missy, given that and some bleary-eyed flat-as-a-kippers-dick crooner doing Mac The bloody Knife I can understand why!

See you next week!

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Weekword:Witty

Once more I’m having a play at Weekword care of my friend Sally on her blog http://sowandsew.wordpress.com/  if you’d like to go see what she’s shared with us this week.

Hmmm. Witty. Me and my husband don’t watch much telly but what we do watch on it is a lot of the comedy shows, guaranteed to make us smile no matter what sort of day we’ve had and sport. We find that sports people are funnier than a lot of comedians especially cricketers, rugby players but more than anything else, some of the Motorcycle racers in BSB, World Superbikes and MOTO GP are really funny. I think excellence at a physical and/or dangerous thing needs humour for release and I’d listen to Colin Edwards, Shakey Byrne, even Casey Stoner (who can be a bit mizz) do a stand-up routine telling me about chatter on their bikes rather than some of Tim Vine’s pants one-liners that leave me scratching my head in disbelief!

Here’s Ben Spies, so serious on the track. They don’t try to talk to him before the race any more but enjoy this!

Then the current advert for the England Rugby World Cup squad has us in stitches too, though I wouldn’t argue at Ben Foden smoothing my top down or Jonny making me a brew either!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7W9W4FrH5mw

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Starting a ‘journey’ *rolls eyes* (feel free to vomit)

So I suffered a back injury 22 months ago where my darling dog Ruddles; all 3 stones of him, decided to lurch forward to lie down in the car on my lap so I had to grab him, just as my husband drove right around a mini-roundabout. We were on our way to the specialist vet 60 miles away in a vain attempt as it turned out, to save Ruddles’ life. We got out of the car an hour and a half later and I knew I’d done something as I felt I was walking in an S-shape with my bum sticking out like a dinner tray. As I couldn’t leave Ruds for more than an hour at a time as he was on steroids which were making him incontinent, it wasn’t until the little soul died 3 months later when I could investigate my back.

Having a driver study to become an osteopath he pointed me to his training hospital where I could get cut price treatment to become a case study for the students, which also meant stripping to my underwear with only a lurid green hospital gown to preserve my modesty in front of up to three students. It wasn’t as bad as I thought and I bravely jutted my chin (I was going to say stick my chest out but that would be just wrong under the circumstances!) and went along with it.

I was doing OK until the first student, asked to comment on my posture, proceeded to tell me I had hypermobile knees and a dropped right arch!..Quite indignantly I pointed out I was there for my back and what did my knees and feet have to do with that?..they explained, I listened. I also learnt quite a lot! For instance, that had I gone to see them 3 months earlier the prognosis would have been better for my back! By this time I couldn’t put socks on or tie a shoe lace!

I had decided to start training for a half marathon with my BNI group under the Osteos’ guidance after a couple of months when just weeks before it I was thrown from a friend’s horse I was going to help exercise. Stupid me got back on after the first fall but after the second one Rich drove me to the North Staffs with a suspected broken back/neck! I also broke the metatarsal in my left foot which stopped me training for anything and overall I set my back treatment straight back to the beginning whilst still performing in the band in my sexy Wayne Rooney boot which didn’t altogether help!

Told that Pilates would help me from the start, as one of the osteo students was a Pilates instructor from Solihull, she had a good old feel of my belly as I chortled I didn’t think I had any muscle under it and to be fair I didn’t do anything about classes, also failing to keep up with the exercises that they did give me – which also to be fair is difficult with a Jack Russell that bounces on your chest as you’re flat on your back putting it into spasm, or a slightly vacant collie that sits staring at you, occasionally dribbling…I also have an aversion to organised classes of most kinds and did do ballet, tap and piano up until I was 17 from age 5. Enough is enough, yes?

From September 2010 to February this year I ran out of money so couldn’t go for osteo but when I went did go back I got a different set of students and one day the overseeing tutor had a good old pummel telling me that in my shoulders I’d got – now let me get this right – soggy, mossy skin! He went on to explain that with everything that had gone on in 2010, Ruds dying, Rich being made redundant, the horse accident etc, etc that my endocrine system was depressed leaving this ‘mossy’ description of my skin where he said my endocrine system was not draining it properly…

Pause for effect…

Me and the delightful Irish student waited for him to leave, looked at each other and said “Did you understand a word of that?”

To cut a long story short, I needed exercises to expand my diaphragm, which is attached to the part of my spine that is immobile that would then help my endocrine system, also attached there, to drain this mossiness away and strengthen my muscle. Got that?

Unfortunately the next appointment saw the usual students and tutor and although I had walked out on air after the previous treatment and was full of this new approach, they didn’t do much of the diaphragm stuff and basically told me to come back in 6 weeks which hardly investigated that side so I didn’t go again.

Move forward to July and my back was in two again so with a Groupon voucher I got 3 chiropractor treatments for a good price and thought I’d try that route instead. I was cracked, pummeled and battered which was more instantaneously beneficial. She also mentioned Pilates. I wasn’t going to get away from this was I!

I researched and found, at last, a trained instructor in the area and I’ve been for my second lesson today. I hate going! I still hate organised classes! Last week I cried in the class as I was so unhappy in the situation (thankfully no one noticed as I stood at the back!) I’m not much older than everyone and considerably younger than some, but I HATE being useless at something, so my tears were more borne out of frustration and inadequacy than anything else and hey! I went back today didn’t I!…

The instructor is lovely, kind, knowledgeable and funny. She is also about my age but has THE most beautiful body I’ve ever seen and SWEARS by Pilates. It is her passion and I will be benefitting from it, once I can stop sulking of course! My back is rigid and I have difficulty with some of the exercises but she assures me that this will do the trick and that is why I’m there…

Are you going to encourage me to go next week?

 

 

 

 

 

 

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